Teach kids to think, discuss and sign with 3 simple sentences
Did you know that pain, if you are good parents? Have your children gone underground with their thoughts and feelings? You feel left out?
The task more important than ever is education. Parents, you need to know what your children are thinking. If their thinking is distorted, their characters will be. Let's see how twisted thinking straightening his power to create the character.
Thought creates character:
1. Think differentFeelings.
2. Emotions fluctuate behavior.
3. To create thoughts, feelings, behavior and character
Toastmaster my friend, Mike, will present a speech competition titled "The Invisible Box." With arms outstretched, has designed an imaginary box about 7 "tall and 3" wide. Has the first time and closed the door unseen. Mike said that too many people living in their box invisible. How does it work for your children?
1. The invisible field is the place where the nursetheir injuries and bitterness.
2. The invisible field is the place where their negative attitude stricter.
3. The invisible field is where you make excuses and hide.
They may have already done in light of your child? Of course! What can you do? Hear words such as:
• No one likes me.
• I can not.
• E 'too hard.
Let's say your child is trying to choose the football teams do. Best friends of your child made the team, butthe coach did not choose her child. Now your child is finished, is not going to play, and steps in the box invisible. What can you do?
Discuss the problem with your child:
1. Probe gently. Find out what your child is thinking and feeling.
2. Listen to what your child says, and is not granted.
3. If you believe that your child the best idea. Do not deny your feelings.
4. No criticism. Rather than empathy.
What's next?Teach your children 3 simple phrases to say to him / herself in difficult times. Are more effective if you take advantage of these sentences aloud before, during and after the diffficult time in your life. Make sure your child hears often these sentences:
3 simple sentences:
1.Things not awful or terrible.
2.Il This is just uncomfortable.
3.Things not go my way.
Think about it. Awfuls and there is really terribles. Things are as they are.The problem begins when we use the dreaded and awful difficult to describe the events of our lives. This is extreme and is negative thinking.
Teach your children that the difficulties are just uncomfortable. Disadvantages are terrible, terrible.
After all, things do not have to go their own way. Teach your children to accept the reality that he / she is not the king or queen of the universe. If they were, could things take their course. They were in power. Accept that thingsmust go their own way, freed from his hiding place in the box invisible. be free to help them meet the challenges of his life with a positive attitude.
Make time for your child's thoughts and feelings to speak. Teach your children to use the 3 simple sentences, that is to say their 3 simple and profound. They will help your child steps outside the window invisible. They are also the parents. They are character-building.
